You cannot stop people from what they love to do except you want to grow or upgrade them. Stop changing for people. Change for yourself. He saw you and liked you like that. Some people think they are failures because they stop doing what they love to do. You are not doing what you love to do, because of another person. You do not change your life for people, because you May loose your identity. Keep adjusting your life. Know who you are. Nobody can know your identity if you do not know who you are. If opportunity meets you today and asks you “Who are you?” and “What can you offer?”, what will you say? Once given a platform and an opportunity, can you perform? Stop living other people’s lives. Live your life. Do not live your life for anyone. We are all gifted, you are not empty. Find YOU!